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It’s all good
It’s totally predictable now. Orgasms = diminished urge to blog about not having orgasms. Interestingly, my interest in non-orgasmly focused topics goes up. If this blog covered other aspects of my...
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I come and she goes
Why am I not writing? Because I don’t feel like it. Why not? Well, nothing’s happening. True, a blog about being denied orgasm is often about the absence of a thing, but in this case, nothing is all I...
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The unwanted orgasm
“Indefinitely” lasted until about 2:30 this morning. We had had a brief conversation about her comment to my last post where I basically expressed my confusion to her in person, told her I felt as...
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Out for the weekend
Saturday morning, Belle says to me, “We’re going to have sex in a few minutes after I have a little more coffee.” “And what do you mean when you say ‘sex’?” At that point, I was wearing a chastity...
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Really bad, then really good
Saturday, Belle told me at some point that Sunday morning she was going to beat me. It’s been so long since she beat me. Yeah, she’s done little things here and there to hurt me (mostly nipple twisting...
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Feeling good
“How are you feeling?” Belle asked. “Good,” I replied. “Yeah?” We had just climbed into bed and were waiting for the offspring to go to sleep in their bedrooms. “Sure,” I said, “What exactly are you...
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There and back again
Thursday morning, as I was getting ready to leave on my trip, Belle took me into the bathroom to lock the CB6K onto my body. I’ve gone into it before with less than full enthusiasm, but this time I...
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Mexico
Back! First things first. While in Mexico, I received an email from Dietmar at Steelworxx saying our new Steelheart had been shipped. That was on Friday and I’m not sure how he shipped it so don’t know...
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Seeking my mojo
Thursday, Belle was at a work dinner and got home late. Apparently, their waiter was a hot young thing Belle found entirely satisfactory. At one point, she texted me telling me about him and how she...
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Still alive
While I can’t say the malaise has been shaken off, it has been given a good kick. Yesterday, the last full day before Belle went away for a week to Asia, I asked for an orgasm. It’s not that I...
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I am not dead!
Anyone who’s read this blog for a while knows that extended periods of quiet are signs of alarm. Not unlike a collie bursting into the room and barking like mad (which might lead you to look around for...
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Thumper’s night
Yes, she let me come on Saturday. The whole thing was wonderful. Before we got down to business, she told me to undress and get into bed. I did, on my knees, burrowing my face into her, kneeling and...
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He comes laughing
I woke up Saturday morning at our family compound in the North Woods at 5:28. That’s within 5 minutes of when I woke up every day for the previous week or so. Usually I get up and pee since, as any guy...
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Top five
First off, I just have to say UGH! Vikings. Jesus. UGH!! There. That’s off my chest. Going into this weekend, I had been given guidance by Belle that I’d be locked up on Friday. She left me unlocked...
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All in one night
Based on a true story. “Get naked and give me the clamps,” she said. Then, after a moment, “And the floggie croppie thing, too.” I did as she said, then climbed back into bed. “Lay on your back.” I...
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Ten things you didn’t know about orgasm
Seems appropriate for this blog… Tagged: orgasm
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The 10/100 plan
As I mentioned the other day, I’ve been feeling a little blah of late with regard to the denial thing. I think a big part of this is that my body’s adapted to its nearly orgasmless existence. I just...
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Random updates
My blogging performance has been substandard of late, so here’s a few random nuggets of information to get my wheels turning again… – I got the replacement lock to the Steelheart yesterday. This time,...
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2 months, 3 weeks, 5 days
That’s as far as I got. Two months, three weeks, and five days. The end began with me getting Belle off. She was on her period and I was locked, so it was your regular nipple sucking, clit fingering...
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Prisoner again
It turns out, she did fuck me. She hadn’t had her cock in such a long time and as she slid down onto it, she moaned and purred in appreciation. It felt hot on the skin of the cock – hotter than I...
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In out up down
Hey, kids! Miss me? So…what the fuck’s up with you? Sorry for the prolonged radio silence. Started out, there wasn’t much to talk about. For the week or two before Labor Day, things got quiet between...
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Hotel
I apologize in advance for the extreme length of today’s missive. I didn’t intend for it to go on and on like this, but there was too much to say! As I mentioned the other day, Belle and I had a...
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Let’s get small
Belle let me out on Christmas Eve morning. I had absolutely no idea it was going to happen. She hadn’t dropped any kind of hint whatsoever. Even more surprising was the orgasm she let me have right...
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Fourth quarter, third shot
Belle continued the zone flooding/hard reset regimen and let me come again night before last. We were watching Monday Night Football (can’t believe NO pulled that one out) and, early in the fourth...
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Where I am
I’ve received a couple of messages like this one from reader Andy (who’s favorite color is green): No entries in so long…what’s up? Are you ok? Yes, I’m OK. Thanks to all who asked. To recap. Last we...
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Just don’t
During my recent week of ridiculous orgasmic bliss, while laying in bed with Belle enjoying the afterglow of maybe the second or third she had let me pull out of myself and onto my hand and stomach, I...
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Pillow talk
It went something like this… “I’m horny.” “I know.” He grinds into her, pressing the steel cage between their bodies. “It’s been a long time.” “A long time?! It’s only been…what? Two and a half weeks?”...
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Hers
Earlier in the week, Belle let me out for a fuck. Not just that, but she let me come, too. It was one of those maintenance fucks in that she didn’t want anything out of it except to let me pop one...
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Gone virtual
“This is an experiment,” Belle said. “You’re experimenting on me?” “Well, you said you didn’t need the device anymore to remain chaste. Let’s see how that works for a while.” This exchange took place...
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Of lizards and pistons and pinchy bits
The answer to the question, “Why hasn’t Thumper posted recently?” isn’t “Because he had an orgasm,” it’s “Because he had two orgasms.” It all started about ten days ago. Belle told me she was going to...
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Fleshy bits
“You look funny when your fleshy bits are out.” That’s what Belle said to me a few days ago following her decision that I’d be out of the device and the unencumbered penis flopped around as I climbed...
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The unfortunate incident
I was away from Belle and unlocked for one night last week. Thursday night, to be precise. The night before, I was so jacked up and horny that I slept only a few hours here and there. I kept waking up...
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News you can use
Following a recent comment by a faithful reader who was seeming to suggest that the quality of my content was perhaps not as good as should be desired from a blogger of my reputation and obvious...
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Four after ninety-nine
I’ve started this post like three times. When it comes to writing for my blog, my muse is my frustration. So, yeah, she let me come. Two times in each of the last two weekends. I know I reported here...
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Stoned
As if three colds weren’t enough. Last week, my daughter came down with some kind of nasty stomach flu which she passed to me 24 hours later. It was bad. I didn’t like it one bit. But, it wasn’t as bad...
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Rising tide
Where were we? Oh, right. On a break. It’s been one month since I wrote that. One month of not wearing a chastity device and one month of essentially coming when I want. Yes, the deal was that I wasn’t...
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Twice is not enough
Memorial Day weekend came and so did I. Twice. Belle didn’t let me out of the Steelheard until the morning after we arrived (Saturday), but after having me get her off with my mouth and fingers (no...
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Fireworks
So it’s true, sports fans. The bunny did come over the holiday weekend. Once on Thursday inside Belle and once again the next day all over my stomach (with Belle in attendance, however). She let me out...
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One week down, 50-100 to go
“Can I come?” I asked, feeling the desire to do so build with each thrust of my hips. “No, of course not,” she said with a laugh. That was yesterday, just a week into the period of indeterminate length...
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She kept pumping
The festive July 4th weekend was a time of reflection for me since it was exactly a year ago that Belle let me have what turned out to be the last orgasms of the year and was the kick-off to my longest...
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Sunday of Sex, part two
As I was saying, Kid #1 was absent Sunday morning and Kid #2 was soon to be. I’m not sure either one of us contemplated the ramifications of this beforehand, but we suddenly found ourselves with five...
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No then yes
Saturday, we were going at it. Me: I want to come… Belle: No. /More fucking. Me: Please. Belle: NO. Sunday, shortly after waking up. Belle: It was wrong of you to ask yesterday. Me: I know. Belle: But...
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Get up in there
So since my last post, she’s let me come twice more. If you’re me, that seems like a ridiculous number. None of them were especially great since they all happened with her on top. That might be part of...
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Taken
Over the weekend, Belle let me come the way I’ve been waiting for. As I said, each of the previous recent opportunities have been less than optimal from my point of view. Sunday, she let me have the...
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Clang
Yesterday I spent an inordinate amount of time in my company’s conference room. Due to the nature of my job, I’m often subjected to serial meetings that can leave me in there for hours at a time (which...
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It’s a team sport
Friday night I was laying in bed flipping and flopping and trying to ignore the fact that I was working up to another sleepless night due to an overabundance of hormones. It’s been a hard few weeks...
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You know when you feel it
After a few recent Metrics posts I’ve received the question of what I mean by ejacualting in Belle but not orgasming. As in, if you’re shooting your load aren’t you having an orgasm? I’m going to write...
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An article in the Guardian called “Orgasm addicts, sex doesn’t have to be red hot” is a mainstream and non-threatening incursion into the world of orgasm control and denial. The point of the piece,...
View ArticleIt is better to give than receive
The first and most basic rule of my being kept is that Belle decides when and how the chastity device contents are used, always every time. Even in #Locktober. She is not bound by hashtags. So it was...
View ArticleEmbracing the vestigial state
Even though it was in the middle of Hashtag Locktober, Belle decided she wanted the contents. As is the custom now, she gave me the key the night before the morning she wanted to get fucked. I need...
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